ECPA's Best of 2010


Rank ISBN Title Author Publisher
1 9780802473158 The Five Love Languages Gary Chapman Moody Publishers
2 9780805448856 The Love Dare Stephen & Alex Kendrick B&H Publishing Group
3 9780964729230 The Shack William Paul Young Windblown Media
4 9781434768513 Crazy Love Francis Chan David C Cook
5 9781591451884 Jesus Calling Sarah Young Thomas Nelson Publishers
6 9780446691093 Battlefield of the Mind Joyce Meyer FaithWords
7 9780764205736 The Telling Beverly Lewis Bethany House/Baker Publishing Group
8 9780849921391 Fearless Max Lucado Thomas Nelson Publishers
9 9781434767950 Forgotten God Francis Chan David C Cook
10 9781414334721 So Long, Insecurity Beth Moore Tyndale House Publishers
11 9781414301273 Bringing up Girls James C. Dobson Tyndale House Publishers
12 9781601422217 Radical David Platt Waterbrook/Multnomah Publishing Group
13 9781591451877 Love and Respect Emerson Eggerichs Thomas Nelson Publishers
14 9780764205743 The Thorn Beverly Lewis Bethany House/Baker Publishing Group
15 9780310275923 The Me I Want to Be John Ortberg Zondervan
16 9781414318639 Her Mother's Hope Francine Rivers Tyndale House Publishers
17 9781404113749 Grace for the Moment Morning and Evening Edition Max Lucado Thomas Nelson Publishers
18 9780310266266 Take Three Karen Kingsbury Zondervan
19 9780310266273 Take Four Karen Kingsbury Zondervan
20 9780446565943 The Coming Economic Armageddon David Jeremiah FaithWords
21 9780310266952 Unlocked Karen Kingsbury Zondervan
22 9780310327899 The Christian Atheist Craig Groeschel Zondervan
23 9780736919241 The Power of a Praying Wife Stormie Omartian Harvest House Publishers
24 9780310247456 Boundaries John Townsend Zondervan
25 9781599792460 Prayers That Rout Demons John Eckhardt Charisma House
26 9780446580366 Power Thoughts Joyce Meyer FaithWords
27 9780800759490 90 Minutes in Heaven Cecil Murphey Revell/Baker Publishing Group
28 9780310276999 The Purpose Driven Life Rick Warren Zondervan
29 9780842379427 Heaven Randy C. Alcorn Tyndale House Publishers
30 9781433668234 The Love Dare Day by Day Stephen & Alex Kendrick B&H Publishing Group
31 9780849919107 Same Kind of Different As Me Ron Hall/Denver Moore Thomas Nelson Publishers
32 9780800719913 Choosing to SEE Ellen Vaughn Revell/Baker Publishing Group
33 9780849920691 Outlive Your Life Max Lucado Thomas Nelson Publishers
34 9780525950790 Prodigal God Timothy Keller Penguin Group (USA) Incorporated
35 9781404187825 Jesus Calling Sarah Young Thomas Nelson Publishers
36 9781591854135 The Bait of Satan John Bevere Charisma House
37 9780842356329 Lineage of Grace Francine Rivers Tyndale House Publishers
38 9781601421128 Do Hard Things Alex & Brett Harris Waterbrook/Multnomah Publishing Group
39 9780830730858 What the Bible is All About Henrietta Mears Gospel Light
40 9780670022120 In the Company of Others Jan Karon Penguin Group (USA) Incorporated
41 9780736920865 The Power of Praying for Your Adult Children Stormie Omartian Harvest House Publishers
42 9781602600621 A Cousin's Challenge Wanda E. Brunstetter Barbour Publishing
43 9781415868027 Breaking Free Beth Moore LifeWay Christian Resources
44 9781600660153 The Pursuit of God A. W. Tozer WingSpread Publishers
45 9780446557856 Hearing from God Each Morning Joyce Meyer FaithWords
46 9781590525135 Redeeming Love Francine Rivers Waterbrook/Multnomah Publishing Group
47 9780310242826 Sacred Marriage Gary Thomas Zondervan
48 9780446545099 Your Best Life Begins Each Morning Joel Osteen FaithWords
49 9780785211600 Vine's Complete Expository Dictionary of Old & New Testament Words W. E. Vine Thomas Nelson Publishers
50 9780800719029 Have a New Kid by Firday Kevin Leman Revell/Baker Publishing Group


The ECPA Bestseller Lists are compiled using adult book sales data from retail stores and websites across the U.S. A book must have sales in at least 20% of reporting providers during at least one week of the represented reporting cycle to be placed on the list. Only Trade Paper, Cloth and Mass Market Paper books are reported, tracts, mini-books or booklets are not included on this list. Only books which are offered to stores at a trade discount from a publisher or wholesaler are featured on the list. Seasonal/holiday books are omitted from this list.
 

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Gold / Platinum / Diamond  

Book Awards Winners






The ECPA Gold | Platinum | Diamond Sales Awards recognize outstanding sales achievement in the publication of quality Christian literature. Submission Information


  • Gold Book Award: sales exceeding 500,000 copies
  • Platinum Book Award: sales exceeding 1 million copies
  • Diamond Book Award: sales exceeding 10 million copies
  • Double Diamond Book Award: sales exceeding 20 million copies

Diamond AwardDiamond Award
10,000,000 in sales
2009

The Shack
William P. Young
WINDBLOWN MEDIA
(FAITHWORDS, Division of Hachette BookGroup)


2008

Prayer of Jabez

Bruce Wilkinson
WATERBROOK MULTNOMAH PUBLISHING GROUP

KJV Gift and Award Bible
THOMAS NELSON
Thomas Nelson


 2005

The Purpose Driven Life
Zondervan
Rick Warren
Presented Double Diamond Award


2011
GoldGold
500,000 in sales
PlatinumPlatinum
1 million in sales

30 Days to Taming Your Tongue
Deborah Smith Pegues
HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS

Classic Christianity
Bob George
HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS

Crazy Love
Francis Chan
DAVID C COOK

Before You Say "I Do" ®
H. Norman Wright and Wes Roberts
HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS

Heaven is for Real
Todd Burpo
THOMAS NELSON

Same Kind of Different As Me
Ron Hall, Denver Moore, with Lynn Vincent
THOMAS NELSON



2010
GoldGold
500,000 in sales
PlatinumPlatinum
1 million in sales

The Source of My Strength
Charles F. Stanley
THOMAS NELSON

It's All About Him
Denise Jackson
THOMAS NELSON

What in the World is Going On

David Jeremiah
THOMAS NELSON

Safe in the Shepherd's Arms
Max Lucado
THOMAS NELSON

Next Door Savior
Max Lucado
THOMAS NELSON

Beauty for Ashes
Joyce Meyer
FAITHWORDS, DIVISION OF HACHETTE BOOK GROUP

Look Great, Feel Great
Joyce Meyer
FAITHWORDS, DIVISION OF HACHETTE BOOK GROUP

Straight Talk
Joyce Meyer
FAITHWORDS, DIVISION OF HACHETTE BOOK GROUP

A Child's First Bible
Dr. Kenneth N. Taylor
TYNDALE HOUSE PUBLISHERS

As Sure as the Dawn
Francine Rivers
TYNDALE HOUSE PUBLISHERS

Boy Meets Girl
Joshua Harris
WATERBROOK MULTNOMAH PUBLISHING GROUP

Echo in the Darkness
Francine Rivers
TYNDALE HOUSE PUBLISHERS

KJV Giant Print Center-Column Reference Bible

THOMAS NELSON

NKJV Holy Bible Classic Companion Edition
THOMAS NELSON

NKJV UltraSlim Bible
THOMAS NELSON


Praying God's Word
Beth Moore
B&H PUBLISHING GROUP



The Purpose of Christmas
Rick Warren
HOWARD BOOKS


A Woman After God’s Own Heart
Elizabeth George
HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS

King James Study Bible
THOMAS NELSON

King James Reference Bible
THOMAS NELSON

KJV Giant Print Reference Bible
THOMAS NELSON

KJV Personal Size Giant Print Reference Bible
THOMAS NELSON

KJV Vest Pocket New Testament
THOMAS NELSON

NKJV Giant Print Bible
THOMAS NELSON

NKJV Giant Print Center-Column Reference Bible
THOMAS NELSON

The Outreach New Testament, ESV®
CROSSWAY

23 Minutes in Hell
CHARISMA HOUSE, A Division of Strang Communications

Jesus Calling
THOMAS NELSON



2009
GoldGold
500,000 in sales
PlatinumPlatinum
1 million in sales
Jesus Calling
Sarah Young
THOMAS NELSON

Crazy Love
Francis Chan
DAVID C. COOK

Same Kind of Different As Me
Ron Hall, Denver Moore, with Lynn Vincent
THOMAS NELSON

The Everyday Life Bible
Joyce Meyer
FAITHWORDS

Multiple Blessings: Surviving to Thriving with Twins and Sextuplets
Jon & Kate Gosselin and Beth Carson
ZONDERVAN
Love & Respect
Emerson Eggerichs
THOMAS NELSON

The Love Dare
Stephen & Alex Kendrick
B & H PUBLISHING GROUP

2008
GoldGold
500,000 in sales
PlatinumPlatinum
1 million in sales

Come Thirsty
Max Lucado
THOMAS NELSON

Hope for Each Day
Billy Graham
THOMAS NELSON

How to Listen to God
Charles Stanley
THOMAS NELSON

Facing Your Giants
Max Lucado
THOMAS NELSON

Twelve Ordinary Men
John MacArthur
THOMAS NELSON

Love and Respect
Emerson Eggerichs
THOMAS NELSON

Cure for the Common Life
Max Lucado
THOMAS NELSON

The Journey
Billy Graham
THOMAS NELSON

3:16 The Numbers of Hope
Max Lucado
THOMAS NELSON

Inside My Heart
Robin McGraw
THOMAS NELSON

The Confident Woman
Joyce Meyer
FAITHWORDS, DIVISION OF HACHETTE BOOK GROUP USA

Approval Addiction
Joyce Meyer
FAITHWORDS, DIVISION OF HACHETTE BOOK GROUP USA

Heaven
Randy Alcorn
TYNDALE HOUSE PUBLISHERS

Get Out of That Pit
Beth Moore
THOMAS NELSON

Becoming a Woman of Prayer
Cynthia Heald
NAVPRESS

23 Minutes in Hell
Bill Wiese
CHARISMA HOUSE

The Case for a Creator
Lee Strobel
ZONDERVAN

The Life You've Always Wanted
John Ortberg
ZONDERVAN

Think Big
Ben Carson and Cecil Murphey
ZONDERVAN

Big Idea Books – God Made You Special
Eric Metaxas
ZONDERVAN

Just Walk Across the Room
Bill Hybels
ZONDERVAN

Escape from the Island of Aquarius
Frank E. Peretti
CROSSWAY BOOKS & BIBLES

Christianity, Cults & Religion
Rose Publishing
ROSE PUBLISHING, INC.

The Redemption of Sarah Cain
Beverly Lewis
BETHANY HOUSE PUBLISHERS

The Crossroad
Beverly Lewis
BETHANY HOUSE PUBLISHERS



Where to Find It in the Bible
Ken Anderson
THOMAS NELSON

God's Promises for Your Every Need
Thomas Nelson
THOMAS NELSON

NKJV Study Bible
THOMAS NELSON

Grace for the Moment, Volume 1
Max Lucado
THOMAS NELSON

The MacArthur Study Bible
John MacArthur, Editor
THOMAS NELSON

Blue Like Jazz
THOMAS NELSON
Donald Miller

The Total Money Makeover
Dave Ramsey
THOMAS NELSON

NIV Adventure Bible
Larry and Sue Richards
ZONDERKIDZ

The Shack
William P. Young
FAITHWORDS, DIVISION OF HACHETTE BOOK GROUP USA

Quiet Strength
Tony Dungy with Nathan Whitaker
TYNDALE HOUSE PUBLISHERS, INC.

Redeeming Love
Francine Rivers
WATERBROOK MULTNOMAH PUBLISHING GROUP

The Treasure Principle
Randy Alcorn
WATERBROOK MULTNOMAH PUBLISHING GROUP

Message Remix
Eugene Peterson
NAVPRESS

Starting Your Day Right
Joyce Meyer
FAITHWORDS

NIrV Read With Me Bible
ZONDERVAN

What's So Amazing About Grace
Philip Yancey
ZONDERVAN

The Jesus I Never Knew
Philip Yancey
ZONDERVAN

The Legend of the Candy Cane
Lori Walburg
ZONDERVAN

The Case for Easter
Lee Strobel
ZONDERVAN

Once Upon a Summer
Janette Oke
BETHANY HOUSE PUBLISHERS

The Shunning
Beverly Lewis
BETHANY HOUSE PUBLISHERS

Alpha Questions of Life
Nicky Gumbel
ALPHA INTERNATIONAL

Jerusalem Countdown
John Hagee
FRONTLINE, A STRANG COMPANY


2007
GoldGold
500,000 in sales
PlatinumPlatinum
1 million in sales
Y Ahora Que
Ralph Harris
ZONDERVAN

If You Want to Walk on Water, You've Got to Get Out of the Boat
John Ortberg
ZONDERVAN

Lies Women Believe
Nancy Leigh DeMoss
MOODY PUBLISHERS

One Minute After You Die
Erwin W. Lutzer
MOODY PUBLISHERS

Outreach New Testament
ESV
CROSSWAY BOOKS AND BIBLES

Don't Waste Your Life
John Piper
CROSSWAY BOOKS AND BIBLES

Ending Your Day Right
Joyce Meyer
FAITHWORDS

Moments Together for Couples
Dennis and Barbara Rainey
REGAL

Your Best Life Now Journal
Joel Osteen
FAITHWORDS

Ten Secrets for the Man in the Mirror
Patrick Morley
ZONDERVAN

Seven Seasons of the Man in the Mirror
Patrick Morley
ZONDERVAN

Lord, Teach Me to Pray in 28 Days
Kay Arthur
HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS

A Voice in the Wind
Francine Rivers
TYNDALE HOUSE PUBLISHERS, INC.

The Rising
Tim LaHaye and Jerry B. Jenkins
TYNDALE HOUSE PUBLISHERS, INC.

The Tender Years
Janette Oke
BETHANY HOUSE PUBLISHERS

Blue Like Jazz
Donald Miller
NELSON BOOKS, A DIVISION OF THOMAS NELSON PUBLISHERS

Captivating
John & Stasi Eldredge
NELSON BOOKS, A DIVISION OF THOMAS NELSON PUBLISHERS

The Postcard
Beverly Lewis
BETHANY HOUSE PUBLISHERS

Loose that Man and Let Him Go!
T.D. Jakes
BETHANY HOUSE PUBLISHERS

Not My Will
Francena H. Arnold
MOODY PUBLISHERS

Little Pilgrim's Progress
Helen L. Taylor
MOODY PUBLISHERS

For Women Only
Shaunti Feldhahn
MULTNOMAH BOOKS

Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World

Joanna Weaver
WATERBROOK PRESS

The Will of God
Leslie D. Weatherhead
ABINGDON PRESS
Boundaries
Henry Cloud and John Townsend
ZONDERVAN

Gifted Hands
Ben Carson
ZONDERVAN

The Daily Bible®
F. LaGard Smith
HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS

The Man in the Mirror
Patrick Morley
ZONDERVAN

The Power of a Praying® Husband
Stormie Omartian
HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS

90 Minutes in Heaven
Don Piper with Cecil Murphy
REVELL, A DIVISION OF BAKER PUBLISHING GROUP




2006
GoldGold
500,000 in sales
PlatinumPlatinum
1 million in sales
Captivating
John & Stasi Eldredge
Nelson Books, A Division of Thomas Nelson Publishers

The Message / Remix
Eugene H. Peterson
NavPress

Daily Readings from Your Best Life Now
Joel Osteen
Warner Faith

Jerusalem Countdown
John Hagee
Frontline, A Strang Company

The Maker's Diet
Jordan Rubin
Siloam, A Strang Company

The Bait of Satan
John Bevere
Charisma House, A Strang Company

The Ragamuffin Gospel
Brennan Manning
Multnomah Publishers

The Student Bible Dictionary
Karen Dockrey, Johnnie Godwin, Phyllis Godwin
Barbour Publishing, Inc.

Parenting with Love & Logic
Foster Cline, MD and Jim Fay
NAVPRESS

God Gave Us You
Lisa Tawn Bergren
WATERBROOK PRESS

Revelation Unveiled
Tim LaHaye
ZONDERVAN

NIV Mass Market Bible – Softcover
ZONDERVAN

The Case for Easter
Lee Strobel ZONDERVAN

The Language of Love
Gary Smalley and John Trent, Ph.D.
TYNDALE HOUSE PUBLISHERS/FOCUS ON THE FAMILY
Captivating
John and Stasi Eldredge
Nelson Books, A Division of Thomas Nelson Publishers

The Message / Full Bible
Eugene H. Peterson
NavPress

The Purpose Driven Church
Rick Warren
ZONDERVAN

The Case for Faith
Lee Strobel
ZONDERVAN

Jerusalem Countdown
John Hagee
FRONTLINE, a division of Strang Communications


2005
GoldGold
500,000 in sales
PlatinumPlatinum
1 million in sales
The Language of Love
Tyndale House Publishers/Focus on the Family
Gary Smalley and John Trent, Ph.D.

The Case for Easter
Lee Strobel
Zondervan

Revelation Unveiled
Tim LaHaye
Zondervan

NIV Mass Market Bible - Softcover
Zondervan

The Postcard
Beverly Lewis
Bethany House Publishers

The Covenant
Beverly Lewis
Bethany House Publishers

Loose that Man and Let Him Go!
T.D. Jakes
Bethany House Publishers

Spring's Gentle Promise
Janette Oke
Bethany House Publishers

The New Inductive Study Bible
Precept Ministries International
Harvest House Publishers

Intercessory Prayer, How God Can Use Your Prayers to Move Heaven and Earth
Dutch Sheets
Regal Books

A Gown of Spanish Lace
Janette Oke
Bethany House Publishers

15 Minutes Alone with God
Emilie Barnes
Harvest House Publishers

Awesome Good Clean Jokes for Kids
Bob Phillips
Harvest House Publishers

It's Not about Me
Max Lucado
Integrity Publishers

How to Begin the Christian Life
George Sweeting
Moody Publishers

31 Days of Praise
Warren & Ruth Myers
Multnomah Publishers, Inc.

Redeeming Love
Francine Rivers
Multnomah Publishers, Inc.

Stories for a Woman's Heart
Alice Gray
Multnomah Publishers, Inc.

The Dream Giver
Dr. Bruce Wilkinson
Multnomah Publishers, Inc.

The Treasure Principle
Randy Alcorn
Multnomah Publishers, Inc.

Revolve: The Complete New Testament
Nelson Bibles/Transit

"My Good Night" Series
Standard Publishing
Susan Lingo

The Macarthur Study Bible
Thomas Nelson, Inc.
Dr. John MacArthur

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2011 Christian Book Award Winners



The 2011 Christian Book of the Year and
Winner in the Non-Fiction Category

Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy
Eric Metaxas
Thomas Nelson
ISBN: 9781595551382


Bibles

HCSB Study Bible
Jeremy Royal Howard and Ed Blum, General Editors
B&H Publishing Group
ISBN: 9781586405069


Bible Reference

Zondervan Illustrated Bible
Backgrounds Commentary: Old Testament
John H. Walton, General Editor
Zondervan
ISBN: 9780310255727


Children

The Action Bible
Doug Mauss, General Editor
Sergio Cariello, Illustrator
David C Cook
ISBN: 9780781444996


Fiction

Almost Heaven
Chris Fabry
Tyndale House Publishers
ISBN: 9781414319575


Inspiration

You Changed My Life
Max Lucado
Thomas Nelson
ISBN: 9781404187832  

  

NON-FICTION 
Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy
Eric Metaxas
Thomas Nelson, 9781595551382






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2011 Christianity Today Book Awards
Judges whittled 427 submissions down to 11 winners.
posted 1/28/2011 10:23AM 

Apologetics / Evangelism



The Passionate Intellect
Christian Faith and the Discipleship of the Mind

Alister Mcgrath (Intervarsity)


"McGrath illustrates how theology transforms our thinking and behavior, and how true apologetics engages not only the mind but also the heart and imagination. His critique of the New Atheism is brilliant."

Review: The Passionate Intellect (Books to Note)
Award of Merit

Belief
Readings on the Reason for Faith

Francis S. Collins (Harperone)

* * *Spirituality



Practice Resurrection
A Conversation on Growing Up in Christ

Eugene H. Peterson (Eerdmans)


"This capstone to the five-volume spiritual theology 'conversations' series is, fittingly, Eugene Peterson at his best. He reflects on pastoring, family life, theology, and daily church realities; critiques both churchiness gone awry and individualism that leads to a rejection of the church; and cautions about where North American Christianity misses the mark. All this is woven together with warm eloquence."
Award of Merit

Letters from the Land of Cancer
Walter Wangerin Jr. (Zondervan)

* * *Theology / Ethics



After You Believe
Why Christian Character Matters

N. T. Wright (Harperone)


"This book is vintage Wright, a thoughtful and well-written theological ethics—eloquent and profound—from one of the world's leading biblical theologians."

Review: Living God's Ongoing Story | N.T. Wright says character matters, but thinks the Reformers disagreed.

Books & Culture: After You Believe | N. T. Wright on Christian character.
Award of Merit

Calvin's Ladder
A Spiritual Theology of Ascent and Ascension

Julie Canlis (Eerdmans)

* * *Biblical Studies



The Good and Evil Serpent
How a Universal Symbol Became Christianized

James H. Charlesworth (Yale University Press)


"This book is a comprehensive account of the symbolic role of the serpent in both the biblical text and the surrounding cultures. Charlesworth gives a masterful account of the serpent that challenges common assumptions about its role in religious thought throughout the Ancient Near East and the Greco-Roman world."

and



The Historical Jesus
Five Views

James K. Beilby and Paul Rhodes Eddy, Editors (Intervarsity Academic)


"Robert Price, John Dominic Crossan, Luke Timothy Johnson, James Dunn, and Darrell Bock represent the wide spectrum of the debates about Jesus, and yet there is honest engagement. The editors provide a helpful 50-page overview of historical Jesus studies."
Award of Merit

The Mission of God's People
A Biblical Theology of the Church's Mission

Christopher J. H. Wright (Zondervan)

* * *Christian Living



What was Lost
A Christian Journey Through Miscarriage

Elise Erikson Barrett (Westminster John Knox)


"Although one in four pregnancies ends in miscarriage, few Christian resources help grieving couples. Barrett, a Methodist pastor who herself has experienced miscarriages, writes sensitively about miscarriage, incorporating real stories with psychology, sociology, and careful theology. It is a great resource both for those who have experienced miscarriages and for those who counsel those who have."

Her.meneutics: In the Shadow of Miscarriage | Elise Erikson Barrett's What Was Lost aims to help women who have suffered miscarriage reconnect with God.
Award of Merit

The Dangerous Act of Loving Your Neighbor
Seeing Others Through the Eyes of Jesus

Mark Labberton (Intervarsity)

* * *Christianity and Culture



Christians Are Hate-Filled Hypocrites … and Other Lies You've Been Told
A Sociologist Shatters Myths from the Secular and Christian Media

Bradley R. E. Wright (Bethany House)


"With wit and wisdom, Wright uses scholarly means to serve kingdom ends, defusing anxiety about the American evangelical prospect and reigniting vision. It's a work of both smart debunking and kind edification, utterly necessary in a time of statistically aided ideological warfare."

Interview: Stop Browbeating | The stats on evangelicalism are much better than you've been led to believe.

Books & Culture: Christians Are Hate-Filled Hypocrites | Or are they? A sociologist investigates.
Awards of Merit

Everything You Know about Evangelicals is Wrong (Well, Almost Everything)
An Insider's Look at Myths and Realities

Steve Wilkens and Don Thorsen (Baker)

What Good Is God?
In Search of a Faith That Matters

Philip Yancey (Faithwords)

* * *Missions / Global Affairs



Redeemed by Fire
The Rise of Popular Christianity in Modern China

Lian Xi (Yale University Press)


"Redeemed by Fire relates with great vividness the story of indigenous Christian movements and their leaders prior to Mao Tse-Tung's China. This remarkable book, based on primary sources, confirms and documents what is often not understood in the West: Indigenous Christianity in China was uniquely Chinese, millenarian, and frequently anti-foreign. This book is essential reading, providing a little foretaste of what the ecclesiastical, theological, and missiological future of the global church might look like."

Books & Culture: Christianity in China | An irreducible complexity.
Award of Merit

To Change the World
The Irony, Tragedy, and Possibility of Christianity in the Late Modern World

James Davison Hunter (Oxford University Press)

* * *The Church / Pastoral Leadership



Almost Christian
What the Faith of Our Teenagers Is Telling the American Church

Kenda Creasy Dean (Oxford University Press)


"Kenda Dean managed to take a sociological study of American teenagers and turn it into a truly prophetic book. I read the data and her analysis and felt convicted by them. You can't read this book and not want to take action."
Award of Merit

Grounded in the Gospel
Building Believers the Old-Fashioned Way

J.I. Packer and Gary A. Parrett(Baker)

* * *Fiction



Of Love and Evil The Songs of the Seraphim, Book Two
Anne Rice (Knopf)


"Of Love and Evil does not have the literary merit of some of her other novels—it is solely driven by plot. But Rice is skilled at holding a reader's attention and creating suspense."

* * *History / Biography



Hope in a Scattering Time
A Life of Christopher Lasch

Eric Miller (Eerdmans)


"In Miller's sure-footed and penetrating narrative, we discover that prominent 20th-century social historian and cultural critic Christopher Lasch grew up under atheistic liberal parents, but laboring under 'a longstanding looming sense of alienation' discovered its roots by examining and eventually deconstructing American liberalism. For a post-Christian era struggling with social responsibility and moral integrity, I can recommend no more salutary biography than this one."
Award of Merit

God of Liberty
A Religious History of the American Revolution

Thomas S. Kidd (Basic)

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4월 17일에 경기도 평택에서 300억대 자산가가 자택에서 손과 발이 청 테이프로 묶인 채 머리에 피를 흘리며 숨져있었고 그의 아내는 목을 맨 채 발견됐습니다. 가정폭력에 시달리던 아내가 조카사위를 동원해 남편을 납치 감금하여 둔기로 때려죽이고 자신은 유서를 남기고 목숨을 끊었습니다. 평생의 반려자가 철천지원수가 되었습니다. 자연계에 봄, 여름, 가을, 겨울이 있듯이 결혼생활에도 봄, 여름, 가을, 겨울이 있습니다. 결혼의 봄은 신혼시절이 아니라 결혼생활에 대한 희망과 기대감과 가능성이 충만한 상태가 결혼생활의 봄입니다. 여름은 아이를 낳아 키우는 때가 아니라 결혼생활이 안락하고 편안하고 행복한 상태가 여름입니다. 가을은 자녀를 출가시키고 두 사람만 남는 때가 아니라 결혼생활이 불확실하고 우울하고 무질서한 상태가 가을입니다. 겨울은 인생의 말년이 아니라 결혼생활이 실망스럽고 외롭고 불만족스러운 상태가 겨울입니다. 어떤 사람은 신혼시절도 찬바람이 쌩쌩 부는 겨울일 수 있고 어떤 사람은 30년을 살아도 따스한 햇살이 가득한 여름일 수 있습니다. 자연계는 지구의 자전과 공전이라는 외부적인 요인에 의해 계절이 결정되지만 결혼생활은 부부가 어떻게 말하고 행동 하느냐에 따라 계절이 달라질 수 있습니다. 두 사람 아니 한 사람만이라도 지속적으로 노력한다면 계절이 달라질 수 있습니다. 저는 우리 교인들이 행복하게 살기를 바라며 게리 채프먼 박사의 [결혼생활의 사계절]을 참고하여 말씀을 전하려고 합니다.

오늘은 첫 번째 시간으로 결혼의 사계절 중에서 겨울입니다. 왜 겨울부터 시작할까요? 달력을 보면 1월이 겨울이니까 겨울부터 시작하는 것은 아닙니다. 사람들은 가을이 돼야 결혼생활을 진지하게 생각하기 시작해서 겨울이 돼야 상담자를 찾아온다고 합니다. 겨울은 남의 말을 귀담아 듣는 시기입니다. 말을 듣지 않으면 소귀에 경 읽기잖아요? 결혼생활이 겨울인 부부의 감정은 어떤지 태도는 어떤지 행동은 어떤지를 살펴보겠습니다. 겨울인 부부의 감정은 상처로 인해 분노하고 절망하며 배우자가 있으나 마다 해 외로움과 소외감을 느낍니다. 부부는 서로 냉랭하게 대하고 대화가 없다보니 집안은 적막하며 마음에는 증오심이 자리 잡고 있습니다. 결혼한 지 23된 남편의 말입니다. “정말 낙심이 됩니다. 우리는 의견이 일치될 때가 한 번도 없어요. 둘 다 황소고집이라서 감정적으로 대립할 때가 많아요.” 아내의 말입니다. “우리는 수년 동안 분노를 안고 살아가고 있어요. 그동안 내가 더 노력했다고 생각해요. 남편은 내 말을 귀담아 듣지 않고 내 감정을 무시하죠. 또 너무 비판적이에요.” 이렇듯이 겨울에 접어든 부부는 서로에 대한 피해의식을 가지고 삽니다. 상대방이 가해자이고 자신은 피해자라고 생각합니다.

겨울인 부부의 태도는 서로를 부정적으로 바라봅니다. 예쁜 것은 보이지 않고 미운 것만 보입니다. 잘하는 것은 그냥 넘어가고 잘못한 것은 트집 잡습니다. 문제가 생기면 기회는 이때다 싶어 상대방을 공격합니다. 결혼한 지 19년 된 아내의 말입니다. “처음부터 잘 해보려고 마음먹었어요. 하지만 남편은 내가 무슨 제안을 하든지 바가지를 긁는다고 생각하는 눈치였어요. 아무리 말해도 소용이 없어서 결국 입을 다물기 시작했죠. 남편은 내 생각이나 욕구를 고려하지 않고 자기 고집만 내세울 때가 많았어요. 그러다 보니 나도 남편에게 무관심해지고 말았지요.” 남편의 말입니다. “직장을 그만두고 네 곳에서 파트타임으로 일하고 있어요.(알바하고 있어요.) 그러다 보니 아내에게 지속적인 관심을 기울이거나 대화를 나눌 시간이 없었고 미래를 위한 계획도 신경 쓰지 못했어요. (내가 피곤해서 듣기 싫어 하니까) 아내는 입을 다물어 버렸어요. 아내의 애정이 바닥이 난 듯해요. 아무리 노력해도 아내의 마음을 되돌릴 수가 없었죠.” 이렇듯이 겨울에 접어든 부부는 원인이 상대방에게 있다고 말합니다. 상대방이 잘못해 문제가 생겼다고 생각합니다. 서로가 배우자를 탓합니다.

겨울은 날이 춥다보니 몸을 움츠립니다. 겨울인 부부는 추위가 가시고 봄이 오기를 기다릴 뿐 따뜻해지기 위해 노력하지 않습니다. 겨울인 부부의 행동은 거친 말을 주고받다가 심한 경우 가정폭력이 일어나기도 합니다. 과거에는 남편이 폭력을 행사했는데 요즘에는 아내가 때리는 경우도 많다고 합니다. 매 맞는 남편은 해마다 늘어나는 추세라네요. 겨울인 부부는 아예 입을 다물고 침묵하거나 서로를 가까이 하고 싶지 않아 각방을 쓰고 이혼을 심각하게 고려한다고 합니다. 결혼한 지 5년 된 아내의 말입니다. “때로 서로 사랑하고 있다고 느끼면서도 늘 마음이 아프고 우울해요. 행복하지가 않아요. 처음과 같은 사랑을 느끼고 싶어요. 남편은 사고를 당해 3년 동안이나 변변한 수입도 없어요. (남편이 돈을 벌지 못하니) 우리 관계는 점차 소원해졌어요. 둘 다 부정적으로 변했고, 서로에게 끊임없이 실망만 안겨주고 있어요.” 남편의 말입니다. “아내가 다툼이 많은 집안에서 성장한 탓에 그런 기질을 고스란히 물려받았다는 것이 문제죠. 아내는 늘 자기주장만 내세웁니다.” 자기주장만 내세우다 보면 겨울이 빨리 옵니다. 겨울에 접어든 부부는 상대방의 입장을 존중하지 않고 말을 하면 말다툼으로 발전하거나 아예 입을 다물고 침묵으로 지냅니다. 서로가 하나라는 느낌이 전혀 들지 않고 차라리 남보다 못하다고 생각합니다. 적과의 동침이 따로 없습니다. 그러나 실망하지 마십시오. 달이 초승달로 이울면 보름달로 차게 되듯이 최고의 상담가인 예수님에게서 성경적인 처방전을 받는다면 겨울이 지나고 봄이 찾아옵니다. 봄과 겨울과는 이웃사촌입니다. 겨울의 찬바람을 맞아봐야 봄바람이 따스한지 알 수 있고 땅도 겨울에 쉬어야 봄에 싹틀 수 있듯이 결혼생활의 겨울을 지내봐야 봄이 소중한지 알 수 있습니다.

그렇다면 어떻게 해야 겨울에서 봄으로 계절이 바뀔 수 있을까요? 과거의 잘못을 극복하면 치유의 계절로 접어듭니다. 상처는 고름과 같아서 짜내지 않으면 곪아갑니다. 우리가 상처를 잊는다면 언젠가 불쑥불쑥 되살아나기 때문에 말끔하게 짜내는 과정을 밟아야 합니다. 우리는 상대방이 상처를 줬다고 생각하지만 손뼉도 마주쳐야 소리가 나듯이 예수님은 쌍방 간의 문제라고 말씀하십니다. 마태복음 7장 3절을 봅니다. “어찌하여 형제의 눈 속에 있는 티는 보고 네 눈 속에 있는 들보는 깨닫지 못하느냐” 예수님은 배우자만 탓하지 말고 자신의 잘못도 인정하라고 말씀합니다. 그러기 위해 상대방의 잘못을 끄집어내서 자신의 감정을 전달하는 게 필요합니다. 상대방을 비난하기 위해서가 아니라 자신의 심정을 전달하기 위해서입니다. 말로 하다보면 싸움이 일어나니 글로 전달하는 게 좋다고 합니다. 상대방이 상처를 주었을 때 ‘나는 ... 라고 느꼈어요.’ 라고 표현해 보십시오. ‘당신이 전화를 받지 않아 내가 너무 걱정했어요.’ ‘당신이 일을 도와주지 않으니 내가 너무 힘들었어요.’ ‘당신이 말을 들어주지 않으니 내가 너무 속상했어요.’ 과거의 상처를 끄집어내는 이유는 자신의 마음을 병들게 만든 원인을 찾기 위해서입니다. 마음이 고쳐져야 말도 고쳐지고 행동도 고쳐지기 때문입니다. 상대방의 글을 읽어보면 나는 의도하지 않았는데 상대방은 상처를 받았구나! 깨닫게 됩니다. 자신의 잘못을 발견하면 예수님은 그 잘못을 인정하고 뉘우치라고 말씀하십니다. 요한일서 1장 9절을 봅니다. “만일 우리가 우리 죄를 자백하면 그는 미쁘시고 의로우사 우리 죄를 사하시며 우리를 모든 불의에서 깨끗하게 하실 것이요” 예수님은 배우자에게 상처를 준데 대해 먼저 하나님께 회개하라고 말씀하십니다. 그리고 상대방에게 잘못을 고백하라고 말씀하십니다. 잘못을 인정해야지 변명하면 안 됩니다. 나는 의도하지 않았더라도 상대방이 상처를 받았다면 그것은 내가 잘못한 겁니다. 나는 재미삼아 돌을 던졌지만 개구리가 맞았다면 그것은 내 잘못입니다. 변명하지 말고 잘못을 인정해야 계절이 바뀔 수 있습니다. ‘내가 전화를 받지 않아 당신이 걱정했다니 미안하오.’ ‘내가 일을 도와주지 않아 당신이 힘들었다니 미안하오.’ ‘내가 말을 들어주지 않아 당신이 속상했다니 미안하오.’ 사과를 할 때는 진심을 담아 진지하게 해야 합니다. 진정성이 필요 합니다. 상대방이 사과를 하면 용서를 할 줄도 알아야 합니다. 그래야 계절이 바뀝니다. 누가복음 17장 3절을 봅니다. “너희는 스스로 조심하라. 만일 네 형제가 죄를 범하거든 경고하고 회개하거든 용서하라.” 예수님은 사과하는 아량도 발휘하고 용서하는 도량도 필요하다고 말씀하십니다. 용서는 상처를 더 이상 거론하지 않겠다는 결심입니다. 예수님께서 피를 흘려 우리 죄를 용서하셨듯이 우리도 상대방의 잘못을 용서해야 신앙적으로 성장합니다. 사랑하는 성도 여러분, 비온 뒤에 땅이 굳어지듯이 겨울의 한파를 견뎌야 봄에 새싹을 틔울 수 있습니다. 혹시 지금 겨울을 보내고 있더라도 염려하지 마십시오. 고름을 짜내야 새살이 돋듯이 과거의 앙금을 털어내면 봄바람이 불어옵니다. 우리 교인들 가정에 향긋한 봄 냄새가 가득하기를 바랍니다.


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